What to wear

Every event has its own dress code, and below you’ll find a look and a color palette for each.

Illustration of Myra and Rakesh in yellow: Myra in a yellow lehenga with a cropped blouse and a matching dupatta, Rakesh in a yellow kurta with cream trousers

Haldisunshine & pastels

Haldi

Friday, May 14

Men
A light cotton kurta with white or cream trousers. A bright summer shirt works too.
Women
A light anarkali, kurta set or simple lehenga. A yellow, orange or pastel summer dress is perfect too.
Illustration of Myra and Rakesh dancing at the Sangeet: Myra in a sapphire lehenga scattered with sequins, with a matching dupatta, Rakesh in a navy bandhgala with cream buttons and a cream pocket square

Sangeetmusic & dancing

Sangeet / Welcome Reception

Friday, May 14

Men
A bandhgala (Nehru) suit, or a kurta with a jacket. A sherwani or a suit works too.
Women
A lehenga, saree, sharara or anarkali, ideally with a little sparkle for the dance floor.

It’s a night of music and dancing, so wear shoes you can dance in.

Colors for inspiration only — wear any shade you love.

Illustration of Myra and Rakesh dressed for the Hindu ceremony: Myra in a rani-pink saree with a marigold blouse and gold borders, Rakesh in an emerald sherwani with a gold pocket square and gold trousers

Hindu ceremonybright & traditional

Baraat & Hindu Ceremony · Wedding Lunch

Saturday, May 15

Men
A sherwani or a kurta set in a bright color.
Women
A saree, lehenga or anarkali in a bright color.

By tradition, white and black are avoided at Hindu weddings. Lunch follows in the monastery gardens, so stay as you are.

Colors for inspiration only — wear any shade you love.

Illustration of Myra and Rakesh in evening wear: Myra in a fitted oxblood gown with a side slit, Rakesh in a black tuxedo with a bow tie

Receptionevening glamour

Catholic Ceremony at Igreja da Penha Longa · Cocktail Hour · Reception

Saturday, May 15

Men
A tuxedo, or a dark, well-cut suit with a tie.
Women
A floor-length gown or an elegant formal dress.

Cocktails are outdoors on the monastery grounds, so block heels or flats are kinder on the paths, and evenings can be cool.

Colors for inspiration only — wear any shade you love.

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