Myra and Rakesh standing together on a rocky outcrop in a field of tall golden grass, under a wide pale sky

The weekend schedule

You’re invited to every event, and everything takes place at Penha Longa Resort. Thursday is for arriving and Sunday for heading home; the celebrations are Friday and Saturday.

Exact times to follow.

ThursdayMay 13

  1. Arrival Day

    Fly in, find your room, and settle in. There’s no formal event, so arrive at your own pace after the long journey.

FridayMay 14

  1. Morning

    Haldi

    The celebrations begin with the Haldi. A paste of turmeric, sandalwood and rose water is applied to the bride and groom by family and friends — a blessing for good fortune, and traditionally for a bit of a glow before the wedding day. Lunch follows.

  2. Evening

    Sangeet / Welcome Reception

    Sangeet means music, and that’s the plan: a night of dancing and some of our favorite dishes to welcome everyone to Sintra.

SaturdayMay 15

  1. Morning

    Baraat & Hindu Ceremony

    The morning opens with the baraat — a procession to the ceremony, accompanied by dhol drums and as much dancing as anyone can manage before noon.

    The ceremony itself takes place under a mandap, a four-pillared canopy, around a small sacred fire called the havan. The couple make seven vows while circling the fire, each one a promise for the marriage.

  2. Afternoon

    Wedding Lunch

    Where
    Monastery gardens

    Lunch together after the ceremony, then the afternoon is yours to relax and enjoy the resort before the evening.

  3. Evening

    Catholic Ceremony at Igreja da Penha Longa

    Where
    The chapel on the resort grounds

    A Catholic ceremony in the sixteenth-century chapel, which stands on the old monastery estate, founded by monks in the 1300s and later a summer retreat for Portugal’s royal family.

  4. Evening

    Cocktail Hour

    Where
    Monastery grounds

    Raise a glass with us as the evening settles over the Sintra hills.

  5. Evening

    Reception

    Where
    The monastery

    Our last night together: dinner, dancing and one final celebration with everyone we love.

SundayMay 16

  1. Departures

    Farewell breakfast for anyone staying on property. Late checkout where available.

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